Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Social Night & Kinky Klothes Party, May 2007

We would like to thank everyone who joined us for the Open Social Night at the East Bay dance club and the Kinky Klothes play party at the SOTC house in Vallejo.
It was great to meet some of the new SOTC members and hang out with our SOTC friends.
We had 21 people join us for the Open Social Night on May 19th.
Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the Kinky Klothes party and the ratio:
Single Men - 3 (2 no shows)
Single Women - 1 (1 no shows)
Couples - 8 (6 no shows)
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Total = 20
The ratio was 1.22:1 (men:women) which nice for such an intimate party on the long weekend of May.
Once again Jay and I hope you had a great time last month, we know we enjoyed hanging out with everyone. We hope to see you again really soon.
Upcoming SOTC Events:
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*Erotic Escapes: Hawaiian Luau
When: Saturday June 23rd, 2007
Where: SOTC Suite, Newark
This party will be a one night erotic escape — SOTC Style. Dressing to the theme is encouraged, but not required. Come show off your coconuts while enjoying some horizontal hula fun
*SF Strip Club Meet & Greet
When: Friday June 29th, 2007
Where: SF Strip Club
This Meet & Greet is open to all SOTC Members. Single Men make sure to attend to get prescreened for parties if you have not done so.
*Sizzlin' Summer Nights
When: Saturday July 21st, 2007
Where: SOTC House, Vallejo
Let's beat the heat in the A/C - with fellow SOTC members getting all hot and bothered.
Thanks again to everyone of our SOTC members,
~J&J~

SOTC's 2nd Anniversary Party ~ Masquerade Party

Dear Friends,

We would like to thank everyone who joined us for the Masquerade play party at the SOTC house in Vallejo Saturday May 5th.
What an intimate evening, we had a sexy time. It was great to see some of the newer SOTC members and hang out with our friends we have made over the past two years.

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the party and the ratio:

Single Men - 6
Single Women - 4
Couples - 11
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Total = 32

The ratio was 1.13:1 (men:women) which is an almost even party!

Once again Jay and I hope you had a great time on Saturday night, we know we enjoyed hanging out with everyone. We hope to see you again really soon.

Any Lost & Found items will be listed in the SOTC Member's Only Forum.

Thanks again to everyone of our SOTC members for making our group the best in the Bay area,
~J&J~

Monday, March 26, 2007

Schoolgirls Gone Wild Party

Jay and I would like to thank everyone who joined us for the School Girls Gone WILD play party at the SOTC house in Vallejo this past Saturday.

What a sexy and very WILD night! We had a packed house and the sexual energy was amazing. It was great to meet some of the new SOTC members and hang out with the friends we have made over the past two years.

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the party and the ratio:

Single Men - 8
Single Women - 5 (2 no shows)
Couples - 16
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Total = 45

The ratio was 1.14:1 (men:women) which is an almost even party!

Once again Jay and I hope you had a great time on Saturday night, we know we enjoyed hanging out with everyone. We hope to see you again really soon.

For those of you who wanted to join us and missed the party because you didn't get registered and/or RSVP in time, we were sorry to miss you. As our group is expanding we are definitely filling up parties a lot more quickly. We encourage you to RSVP as soon as you possibly can after the invites are sent out, so we don't miss you at the next event.

Upcoming SOTC Events:

  • Meet & Greet @ SF Strip Club - April 14th, 2007
    All SOTC members are invited. SOTC Meet & Greets are a great way to meet the hosts, find out more about SOTC, meet other members, make new friends and have a great night out. This event will be held at a top quality San Francisco strip club - what place could be sexier for a Meet & Greet? There is a dress code for entry to the club, please follow this, or you will be denied entry by the club.

  • SOTC 2nd Anniversary Party - April 21st, 2007
    Celebrate the growth and success of the SOTC community over the last two years. This party is sure to be off the hook. You do now want to miss this one.

Thanks again to everyone of our SOTC members for making our group the best in the Bay area,

~Jodie & Jay~

Monday, February 19, 2007

Provocative Pajamas Party

SOTC would like to thank everyone who joined us on Saturday night for the Provocative PJ Party. It was great to see everyone all dressed down in their sexy pjs. We had an amazing group most of those we have met before, and a few new faces who blended well with our old friends.

After the circle of introductions, the social crowd we had revealed its true lusty nature in no time at all. Once again SOTC partied late into the night and early morning, with so many sexy scenes displayed all over the house.

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the Provocative PJ Party and the ratio:

Single Men - 9
Single Women - 2 (3 no shows)
Couples - 11 (3 no shows)
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Total = 33

The ratio was 1.5:1 (men:women) This seemed to work out well, although it would have been even closer to an even ratio had the no shows had been able to make it. We had a full party guest list and we were just shy of a full house.

March is quickly approaching and our party for that month is right on our heels. Invites for the Spring Fever Party - March 3rd will be out shortly. Please RSVP for your space as soon as you can in order to save your spot. We can't wait to see you all again!

Thanks again to everyone for a great night, we love hosting for great people who know how to party.

J&J

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

February 3rd 2007 Meet & Greet

We just wanted to say thanks to those who made it to the Meet & Greet, on Saturday in Walnut Creek.

We had 22 people join us for the Meet & Greet on Saturday: 6 couples, 7 single men, and 3 single women. We had 4 no shows.

Thanks to everyone it was great meeting all of you who had not been out to an SOTC event before, and as always a pleasure to see our old friends. See you all again real soon!!!

Friday, January 19, 2007

What A Bang!

Thanks to everyone who joined us for Bang in the New Year at the SOTC house in Vallejo. It was great to see our old friends and break in some of the newer members. 2007 couldn't start out any better - naked, just the way we like it at SOTC. We had a champagne toast and sampled new snacks, mingled and had a great time. The social scene became quite cozy in no time, and the party was in full effect.

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the Party and the ratio:

Single Men - 9 (1 cancelled)
Single Women - 4 (1 no show, 1 cancelled)
Couples - 10 (4 no shows)
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Total = 33

The ratio was 1.36:1 (men:women) which is a decent mix for any party, despite the no shows that were definately on the higher side than we normally have.

Once again we hope you had a great time on Saturday night. We know that we enjoyed hanging out with everyone. We hope to see you again really soon. For those of you who wanted to join us and missed the party because you didn't get registered and/or RSVP in time, we were sorry to miss you. Our group is rapidly growing, and parties are filling up a lot more quickly. Please RSVP so as soon as you possibly can after the invites are sent out, so we don't miss you at the next event.

SOTC's Monthly Newsletter Released!

SOTC News - Vol. 1, January, 2007

Featured This Month:

Member News
Hey everyone - We hope you all had a very safe and satisfying holiday season. We hope everyone is well rested and ready to jump right back into the social events SOTC are known for - namely the best parties in the Bay Area!

The time has now come for us to do some house cleaning once again. As we have explained since October of last year we have switched over to the Membership based group with new features. We have given all of the old yahoo group members plenty of time to make it to an SOTC event in order to get a free upgrade of their membership.

***Please note: If you have been to AND paid for an SOTC meet or party, you can disregard the request for Membership dues. If you have paid for your membership already, you are also exempt from this at this time as well. This message is intended for all of those who have never made it to a paid SOTC event, and who are now required to pay their membership dues in order to continue to be on the guest list for parties.***

There are a few options available if you wish to continue to hear about SOTC events:

The FREE option that is now available is our newsletter, which you must sign up for yourselves on the site at: http://www.sotcparty.com/subscribe/ Just put in your email address and a monthly SOTC newsletter with our events and future plans will be sent to you at no cost. No invites will be sent for parties or events, in order to receive those you must have a paid membership. All paid memberships will automatically be sent this newsletter as well.

To purchase your SOTC Membership go to: http://www.sotcparty.com/apply/ and complete the online questionnaire. Everyone will be required to resubmit their questionnaires and pics in order to ensure we have the latest and the most accurate information. Once approved you will be sent an email directing to where you can pay for the $49.99 one year membership, or the $99.99 lifetime membership. You will then be given a membership number and placed on the invite list. Single men will still be required to meet us first, before getting on the invite list - that will not change.

Membership benefits include:

  • Invitations for Parties, Social Events, and Meet & Greets

  • Connect with real people who love being naughty

  • SOTC Forum Your one-stop shop for all of the latest SOTC information and member features

  • Monthly Newsletter

SOTC Plans Expansion Into South Bay
Driven by numerous requests, and the success of its party format, SOTC plans to start hosting parties in the South Bay area in 2007. To assist with this, SOTC is also looking to hire or partner with a local host couple to run parties out of their home or at a high-end hotel. Interested couples should contact us as soon as possible.

By adding more events to the schedule SOTC will be able to deliver even better value and services to its membership base.

Current Specials
Single Women: Are you a single woman looking for a party group that is safe, clean and friendly? If you join SOTC in January or February, you will get an annual membership for free. To take advantage of this offer just apply online: http://www.sexoutsidethecity.com/apply/
Once you are approved, you will be eligble to get an annual membership for free.

Refer a Friend: Want to go to SOTC parties for free? Any new approved paid memberships you refer to us will get you a free gift certificate for an SOTC Party. Just have them sign up and put in the comments section of the form who referred them.

Lifestyle Tips
Having sex among consenting adults is legal and has been for a very long time. Many couples have the impression that swinging or sharing partners for sexual activities is against the law! Nothing could be further from the truth... Read Full Article Online: http://www.swinging-tips.co.uk/article-27-how-is-swinging-legal.html

Ask Jodie
Dear Jodie,
My wife and I are very new to this and have never been to a party before. We have discussed our boundaries and are comfortable proceeding to the next step-attending a party. We basically have established the major ground rule - that if you want to play with either one of us, you get both of us. Our question is this: Will this make things strained or difficult, or will we still fit in ok and be able to find people interested in us? What is expected of us as a couple?
-Newbies

Dear Newbies,
It is great that you both are communicating about your desires, fears, comfort levels etc, as that is key to success in this lifestyle. Of course, whatever your comfort levels are they will be respected at events organized by reputable organizations. At parties every couple plays either together, separately, or some combination of the two. Just be clear in communicating your comfort level and boundaries to anyone you are interested in playing with and they should be respected. Most couples new in the lifestyle tend to explore together at first, and then branch out more with time if that is something they are both comfortable with.
~Jodie~

Got a question? Ask Jodie! Send in your question to: hostess@SOTCparty.com, and you may even get to see it published next month!

Toy of the Month
You have probably seen them in the toy shops or online, yes those fancy colorful glass dildos. We spotted one in an adult toy shop for over $75 and thought it looked great, but at that price was it really worth it? Then one day, out of the blue, a friend surprised me by giving me one as a gift. I couldn't wait to try it out!

Mine is made of clear glass with green spirals going up the inside of the 8 inch length. It also has a good-sized head on it. At room temperature the dildo felt a little cool, but upon insertion it felt really good. After a few moments it warmed up and maintained the warmth the entire time I used it. Being seamless and smooth, there is no uncomfortable friction and it makes for a very stimulating experience indeed!

Not only are glass dildos fun to use, but because they are non-porous wash up is a breeze. You can wipe it with a damp cloth and mild soap or cleanser. Or you just place it in the top rack of your dishwasher. Glass dildos are also very durable, not fragile as you may first expect. Mine has been thrown down on hard floors and it still doesn't have a single scratch or chip. This toy definitely hits the spot. It is now my favorite toy! Everyone I know who has tried one, just loved it, and now use them regularly - so I am not alone.

Glass dildos come in all different shapes, sizes, and colors. They are suitable for both vaginal and anal play. They range in price from about $70 to hundreds of dollars depending on the style and brand.

For a limited time, the SOTC store has the Giggles Glass Toys dildo (pictured above)http://www.sotcparty.com/store/glasspromo for only $29.95 (regularly $79.20) — This particular model comes with a case to store it in. It also has an LED illumination feature which lights up the entire toy. Now mine doesn't light up, but I think that it would be a lot of fun in the dark!

To get this toy or others check out the New Year Specials at the SOTC store: http://www.sotcparty.com/store/2007/. We have some great products at awesome prices.
~Jodie~

Upcoming Events
Bang In The New Year Party 01/13/2007
Meet & Greet 02/03/2007
Provocative Pajamas Party 02/17/2007
Spring Fever Party 03/03/2007
Social Night 03/31/2007

Get Tested and Play Safe
Just a quick reminder to everyone — To have fun and be safe in the lifestyle it is recommended that everyone be tested for HIV and other STDs at least once a year. With the new year here, it is a good time to think about when you were last tested. If it has been between 6 months to a year since your last round of full testing, we strongly suggest you make an appointment. Don't put it off, it only takes a little bit of time, and helps keep you and your play partners safe and healthy.

If you don't want to go to your family practitioner to get tested, there are several confidential, free or inexpensive clinics in the SF Bay area. One example is Planned Parenthood. They have a number of local clinics, and they provide free testing and birth control.

Be safe, be responsible — get tested soon.


SOTC's That 70's Party

Thanks to everyone who joined us for That 70's Party. We were happy to see a bunch of new members joining us for their first party, and of course it was great to see our old friends as well.

We had the music, the lava lamps, and of course the outfits. It was great to see people arriving in costume ready to have a great time with other SOTC members.

Special birthday wishes go out to those three members who attended, celebrating their birthdays in or around this time. We hope you get everything you wish for this year.

For this party we had quite a few couples, some of whom were getting their feet wet for the first time with SOTC. In the end many explored and got to see how we like to party at SOTC, everyone had a great time and we can't wait to do it all again!

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the party and the ratio:

Single Men - 7 (1 no show)
Single Women - 3 (2 no shows)
Couples - 12 (1 cancelled)
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Total = 34

The ratio was 1.27:1 (men:women) which was an almost even party!
Once again we hope you had a great time on Saturday night, we know we enjoyed hanging out with everyoneand we hope to see you again really soon.

Important SOTC links:

  • SOTC Website has a few changes
  • SOTC Blog
  • SOTC Forum - Members only. You have to be an SOTC member to get the forum link. Please join us if you have not already done so as the Yahoo Group is now CLOSED.
  • SOTC Memberships - Now our questionnaire is all done online. Refer a friend today!
  • SOTC the best social party group in the Bay area!
    ~J&J

Monday, November 20, 2006

Can't believe we topped last years Naughty School Girl Party!!!

Thanks to everyone who joined us for the Naughty School Girl play party at the SOTC house in Vallejo.

Wow sexy teeny skirts were everywhere! It was definitely a feast for the eyes everywhere you looked. Even the men dressed up - we had a priest, a coach, a professor, a Sci-Fi geek, and Rio from the Matrix. We had a bit of a later start than usual as we waited for a few to arrive, but we definitely made up for lost time as we partied until well after 4am.

Special mention goes out to C&E who were celebrating their anniversary with us on Saturday. Thanks for sharing your special day with us, may you have many more to come!

Here is the breakdown of how many joined us for the party and the ratio:

Single Men - 8 (2 no shows)
Single Women - 7 (1 had to reschedule)
Couples - 10 (1 no show, 3 rescheduled/sick)
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Total = 35

The ratio was 1.06:1 (men:women) which is an almost even party!

Once again we hope you had a great time on Saturday night, we know we enjoyed hanging out with everyone. We hope to see you again really soon.

For those of you who wanted to join us and missed the party because you didn't get registered and/or RSVP in time, we were sorry to miss you. As our group is expanding we are definitely filling up parties a lot more quickly. We encourage you to RSVP as soon as you possibly can after the invites are sent out, so we don't miss you at the next event.

Upcoming SOTC Events:
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*That 70's Party -
When: Saturday December 2nd, 2006
Where: SOTC House, Vallejo

Funk-it-out, bring your mojo and pardy-hardy at the shagadelic SOTC love pad. Retro-costumes encouraged but not required. Peace.

*Tease The Season -
When: Saturday December 16th, 2006
Where: SOTC House, Vallejo

Oh what will Santa's bring? Lots of toys, such naughty things. Come and sit on Santa's lap, and play with the elves on the love-sac.

*Bang In The New Year -
When: Saturday January 13th, 2007

Where: SOTC House, Vallejo

Start the year off with a BANG! Break in the New Year the best way we know how — wicked and wild.

*Meet & Greet -
When: Saturday February 3rd, 2007
Where: East Bay Dance Club

Open to all SOTC members, Meet & Greets are a great way to meet other members, make new friends and have a fun night out. Pizza will be available too!

*Provocative Pajamas -
When: Saturday February 17th, 2007
Where: SOTC House, Vallejo

Lets have some sexy SOTC fun while behaving like teenagers! Whether you sleep naked, in pajamas, lingerie, etc, show it off and play in the same. What will you wear?

Thanks again to everyone of our SOTC members for making our group the best in the Bay area,
~J&J~

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Thanks to all who contributed to the Exotic Erotic Ball and the SOTC Booth!!!









Hi SOTC Members and those Exotic Erotic Staff & Contributors,

Jay and I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who contributed to make the Exotic Erotic Expo and Ball a success. Without the support of our community there is no way we could have pulled it all together in three weeks.

We definitely had some trying times but with the right help we made it through in one piece. At best the expo and ball was disorganized, but if it were not for a handful of wonderful people it would have all fallen apart.

Special SOTC thanks goes out to Cat who in the midst of the storm always had an answer and was willing to help us, even though she had to answer and contend with everyone.

Similarly Genevieve was in the mist of the storm as well and looked like she could use a huge massage – and that was before the ball even began. Thanks so much for your help and understanding with our first time at the event, we do recognize how difficult it must have been to deal with everything that came your way.

Also we would like to thank Sam who hooked us up during the set up of the expo, what a great guy and a wonderful personality – he got it done and took care of us like we owned the place. I don’t know if we can even find him to send this out to him, but we do thank him wherever he may be.

One final thank you we would like to give is to the private security guard Gerald who put in a bit of extra effort to make sure our booth and staff were well looked after.

Even before the event began Jay and I put out a request to our members and friends for support. We were and continue to be in awe of all of the help we have received, both in guidance and support in any shape or form. Thanks to everyone who offered their help, we appreciate it from each and every one of you. Below is a list of those members who contributed even before we set foot on Cow Palace property:

*Karen – Donated a Laptop.

*Mike & Dorene – Loaned several laptops, monitors, and other computer equipment – as well as technical advice on setting them up.

*Vince & Laurie – Sewed 2 covers for the Love-SAC at very short notice.

*Manny – Arranged for the van in advance and got us a kick ass deal. He also came over Thursday night and stayed up until well after 2am to help load the van.

*Brian – As always gave us a great deal on sex toys and donated quite a few items as well.

*Casey & Eryka – They donated sex toys, gave much needed support, and helped with all of our printed material including our banner that KICKS ASS, business cards, etc. All of their work at Monkey Business Design has been extraordinary, and we could not have asked for better service and products.

The following is the list of the dedicated individuals who volunteered Friday & Saturday at our booth for the expo and ball:

Manny, Veronica, Eric, Long & Anne, Shawn, Eddie & Lisa, Luk, Chris & Kelli, Karen, and Terena & Chris.

These people came out and put in way more time and dedication than we ever expected of them. From playing on the Love-SAC, securing the Love-SAC, to walking around handing out lollipops, pens and business cards, setting up and cleaning, computer support, and keeping Jay and I calm, relaxed and focused during some trying times! We thank you for your dedication to SOTC.

Special note about the Love-SAC: What a crowd we got!!! Thanks to those who had the courage to hang out on the Love-SAC as it was not easy to put yourself in the middle of all of that attention. You were rock stars in your own right, and you owned it. We were definitely a force to be reckoned with at this event, as we were not paid actors but REAL live sexy people doing what we do best. Thanks for your courage; we know it was not easy to be so out there in a community that prides itself on being discreet.

Since we had never done this before the wealth of knowledge and support we received from everybody was something that money could not buy. They gave their time - entire days, to ensure our booth was a success. We all kicked some ass for sure. I believe we had one of the largest crews there, none of which were paid staff, but real people volunteering from our community. There may have been other lifestyle people at the Exotic Erotic, but no one else had volunteers helping out.

In all the craziness we had people getting things done with no questions asked. At the end of each day we were exhausted but no one complained and they did it all with a smile. We know how long the days were and Jay and I cannot thank you enough for joining us this past weekend. We only hope that you all had time to enjoy everything and had some fun as well. Being around such great people made the entire weekend worth it for Jay and I, we couldn’t ask for better friends.

Thanks also to all of the SOTC members who came out to the expo and ball and stopped by to say hello and offer support. As we have said before Jay and I have been overwhelmed with the support we have gotten from our community and it touches us to our very core. This is exactly why we do what we do everyday for SOTC, because our members are some of the finest, sexiest people on the planet, and we feel privileged to call you our friends.

From the bottom of our hearts thanks to everyone who made this all possible,

~Jodie & Jay~
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